You've landed the interview for your perfect job. You're on the phone with a potential new client. Maybe you're even sitting across from the woman who could become your mother-in-law. After exchanging a few pleasantries, the other person takes control of the conversation and says, "So, tell me a little about yourself." *Gulp.* Is it just me, or is it getting warm in here? What does that mean, … [Read more...]
If You’re Happy and You Know It…
Growing up, one of the first songs many of us learned was "If You're Happy and You Know It..." The verse takes us through three actions: clap your hands, stomp your feet, shout "hooray!" Each verse reminds us that if you're happy and you know it, "your face will surely show it." Most of us probably enjoyed the activity (even thinking about it now makes me smile), and it taught us a particular way … [Read more...]
Claiming Your Introvert Power with Laurie Helgoe
February 1, 2013, was a special day for introverts everywhere. It marked the release of the second edition of Laurie Helgoe’s fabulous book, Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life is Your Hidden Strength. It’s chock full of stories, research and quotes from introverts the world over, all affirming the quieter gifts of the introvert. And this new edition reveals even more insights that are sure to … [Read more...]
Introvert Q&A: How Do I Tell Others, “I Need to be Alone”?
The more aware we grow as introverts, the more we realize that we often have to tell others what we want or need. Things we appreciate - silence, space, alone time, stillness - aren't naturally valued in our day-to-day lives. So we can suffer, give in, shut down or become hostile (which probably contributes to the image of the misanthropic introvert). Or, we can take a proactive stance that … [Read more...]
How to Keep Your Words From Going In One Ear & Out the Other
“Why can’t they just figure it out on their own?” “What is taking him so long?!” “Why does she keep talking about stuff she doesn’t know about?” “Why can’t we ever have a productive team meeting?” Do any of these laments sound familiar?!? In the typical workplace, there are a wide range of personality … [Read more...]